Five years ago I married the man of my dreams. And I thought that I loved him then (and yes, I’ve been listening to that Brad Paisley song too much lately).
Marriage is one of those things that people always tell you about and you never believe them. You’ll never be like that person, you’ll never struggle, you and your honey have got it going ON. You’ve done the marriage counseling, you had all the “right” answers. And the wedding? Well, the wedding is amazing and fun and beautiful and everything you dreamed it would be.
One thing that stuck out from everything that people told us about marriage before we got married was that it was the most wonderful and the hardest thing they’ve ever done. “It takes work,” they said. “You have to learn how to fight,” we were told.
And I’m here to tell you that yes, they are in fact correct whenever they say those things. Joining two people together to live life together, to always love and support one another, to be true and honest with one another, and to love unconditionally…that’s hard.
It’s also the best thing I’ve ever done with my life. There have been major ups and downs (more ups though!), some tears, some frustration, and more love and laughter than I ever imagined for myself. There have been vacations, stay-at-home snugglefests, fights, reconciliations, puppies, family, life, loss, and everything in between.
And through that all, through all 5 years of it so far, I’ve fallen more in love with my husband than I ever thought possible. I never knew I could love this much, and I’m so thankful every single day for every moment that I’m blessed with in knowing and loving this man.
Nate, you are truly the most incredible man I’ve ever known. I know I don’t always make it easy for you, but every breath I take I swear I love you more. You are incredibly loving, kind, hilarious, smart, fun, spontaneous, encouraging, hard-working, a man of integrity, a man who leads, and above all a man who loves the Lord more than you love me. Oh, and super hot too 🙂 I can’t wait to bring this baby boy into the world with you, see you as a father to our son (and puppies), and continue to be your wife always and forever. You are so amazing, and I love you.
Love,
Scooter
Your husband is hot 😉
oh girl, tell me about it 🙂
Love it – Congrats!
I loved this! Happy 5 years to you and your husband and many more!!!
I’m getting married in June, so reading posts like this makes me super happy 🙂
Sweetest post EVER! Happy Anniversary!
This is such a cute post 🙂 Happy Anniversary!
Happy Anniversary!!! I snorted out loud laughing at your last photo! Hilarious!!!
Awww happy anniversary! 🙂
I esp love when you say “I know I don’t always make it easy for you” because I’m guilty of that too. But we’re worth it 😉
Beautiful couple. Thanks for sharing!
Hi! I just discovered your blog and can’t wait to read more! Happy Anniversary! My husband and I will be celebrating our 6th anniversary this year!
you guys are SO freakin’ cute together – love that last picture. Congrats, Heather 🙂
i just found your blog and i love it! (i was searching for lemon poppyseed cookies… yours look amazing!)
but anyway, this is the sweetest thing ever! very inspirational 🙂
Happy Anniversary! This was such a beautiful tribute to your hubby. And the last picture is priceless.
happy anniversary you guys!!! <3
Happy 5 year anniversary!!
Happiest of Anniversary wishes to you both. The last photo is awesome, love it!
Congrats on 5 years. You two make such a beautiful couple. Hopefully one day I get to meet you both. Or at the very least meet you!
Happy 5th Anniversary! Love the pictures and your wise words.
Awwwh…. love this!! 🙂 You guys are so cute together!!
aww, what a sweet post! happy anniversary. 🙂
happy anniversary! love your honesty in this post! what a lovely bride!
So cute 🙂 Congratulations!
Happy Anniversary! 5 years is wonderful. Thank you for your honesty about it being difficult, I think a lot of people don’t admit that, but it is hard, and it is that ongoing effort togthether that makes your love grow bigger each day!
Congratulations!
Happy anniversary! I LOVE these pics- you guys are too cute =)
Wow…what a wonderful post. I am lucky to be 1 year in with an amazing man too. Happy Anniversary!
Happy anniversary! Love the pictures of you guys!
Happy anniversary! I love that last photo of you two! (PS your wedding dress is GORGEOUS!)
Happy anniversary! This April will mark 6 years for me. I agree with everything you said!
Congrats 🙂 I’m only on my 4th month of marriage. 😉
A very happy 5 years to you both!
Happy anniversary! You guys are super adorable.